How Do I Get Her Into Bed on the First Date?

This is of course a typical male question: how do I get a woman as quickly and easily as possible – automatically and without much effort – to have sex with me, right now? This question is nothing to be ashamed of, because it is our natural inclination as men to constantly try to find ways of having quick and uncomplicated sex. If you are Brad Pitt, Ashton Kutcher, George Clooney or somebody just as famous and good-looking as they are, then in most cases this should be a relatively simple exercise. For all other men, we have to start with a piece of bad news: it is not as easy as we men wish for.

This is due, in the first place, to the fact that not every woman is prepared to have sex immediately with a man, however good-looking he may be. And secondly, it is because most men do not yet (!) know all the tricks and strategies to get to their desired destination.

The good news is that there are many ways of easily multiplying one’s chances.

On one side we can choose the external conditions in such a way that they support our objective, because we can go to the very place where we will find many women who are most willing to engage in a sexual adventure. These are clearly the places on the Internet in which women and men are looking for sexual contacts, but there are also places like parties, clubs and other similar events where women are more likely to be looking for a quick adventure.

Many a woman will say: “Hey, wait a minute; I’m here at the club just to dance and spend some time with my girl-friends!”  But that is only half the truth: should she go home alone or without the number of a great guy, she will consider the evening as rather less than successful. Even though she may have had a lot fun with her girl-friends! This means for us men: we should strive to help women who go out in the evenings to find exactly what they are actually looking for, because this is also our own objective. Whether this is sex or a long-term relationship – we’ll find that out very fast at the first meeting.

Tip No. 1 is: go where women tend to look for sex in a relaxed and informal way.

Tip No. 2 is also quite obvious: be the man a woman really wants. To present this a little differently: provide the woman with the precise experience, which means the precise emotions, she expects to receive from such a man. This requires the man to know how to dress, the right body language, what kind of communication a woman is looking for, and above all, the knowledge of the exact steps that lead from the first meeting to having sex. If these steps are not followed, it is rather a question of chance (or a large amount of alcohol) if you still get her into bed.

That nothing needs to be left to chance here is something well-known: everything that is needed for successful seduction can be learned. This blog and many books on our subject can lead you to success. A clear system has been designed, for example, by the American pickup artist Mystery. See for more information. Good luck!